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									                    <name>by Edward  Smith</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Real Life Examples Why Partition Actions May Become Necessary]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255984</id>
            <updated>2025-11-17T16:13:25Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-17T16:13:25Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Bob and Jane inherited their mom’s house.   They both co-own the house.  Jane lived in the house for years taking care of mom before she died.  Since mom died, Jane remains in the house, but is not paying for any expenses, except for utilities, still in mom’s name.  Bob paid the insurance in case the house burns down, but no…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/11/real-life-examples-why-partition-actions-may-become-necessary/"><![CDATA[Bob and Jane inherited their mom’s house.   They both co-own the house.  Jane lived in the house for years taking care of mom before she died.  Since mom died, Jane remains in the house, but is not paying for any expenses, except for utilities, still in mom’s name.  Bob paid the insurance in case the house burns down, but no one has paid the property taxes, which is past due.   There are issues between Bob and Jane going back many decades, meaning that Bob and Jane are not communicating.  Perhaps Bob and Jane are estranged.   Jane has her reasons why she will not communicate, but the bottom line is that it appears that she will not voluntarily pay for her share of the costs of property ownership and she is not willing to pay rent or move out or sell the house.  What are Bob’s options?

Lawsuits should be a matter of last resort, only after the parties fully engage and are unable to resolve their differences.  Most families can communicate and work something out but some families are or become dysfunctional for a myriad of reasons and at some point, a lawyer is brought in to advise of rights, duties, and responsibilities of these co-owners of real property.

Continuing with this hypothetical, let’s say I represent Bob, who tells me that Jane does not respond to his phone calls, e-mails, and text messages.  Bob is concerned, knowing that he owns one-half of a house and that there are always ongoing expenses that must be paid.  Bob is not receiving any benefits of ownership because Jane is living in the house, yet he is saddled with some or all the expenses of property ownership.

In my first meeting with Bob, I try to be a good listener and learn as much as I can in a limited amount of time about all relevant facts. I then explain to Bob the law of Partition and ask him to think about his options.  What does he want?  Does the law of Partition support what he wants?   He understands that I will attempt to communicate with Jane to try to open dialogue.

If you are in a similar situation as Bob, or just curious, keep reading because I am about to explain what are Bob’s rights as a co-owner under the law of Partition in California.  This will help Bob better understand his rights and responsibilities and help him formulate a reasonable position for negotiations.

I explained to Bob that all co-owners are responsible for property taxes, insurance and necessary maintenance and repairs in proportion to their ownership interests.

The issue of rent is more complicated.  Is Bob entitled to rent for Jane living on the property?   No, Because Jane, as a co-owner, is not required to pay rent.  Theoretically, Bob could move in and live there too.  If Bob tried to move in and Jane prevented him from doing so, he would have a claim for rent under what is known as an “ouster exception”.  However, in this case, Bob does not want to move in.  Nonetheless, the court may be able to award Bob compensation through an accounting, which is part of a partition lawsuit.

Bob tells me that he is not in a hurry to sell the property and is ok keeping co-ownership so long as Jane pays for the costs of ownership.  Although Jane is only responsible for half the costs of ownership, she is getting the benefit of living in the house, which is probably worth more than paying for the taxes and insurance, maintenance, and upkeep.  Bob suggests that Jane can live there for up to five years under this arrangement and then reassess options later.

In my letter to Jane, I explain the duties of co-ownership.  Jane is informed that both co-owners have a duty to pay for the taxes and insurance.  Because Bob paid 100% of the property insurance, he is entitled to reimbursement from Jane.   Based on what is acceptable to Bob,  the letter states that if she agrees to pay for all the taxes and insurance, as well as for all maintenance and repairs, that Bob would consider that equal to the value of her living on the property.  In other words, if she pays the taxes and insurance and pays for all maintenance and repairs, so that Bob is not out of pocket for anything, then Bob is ok with Jane continuing to live in the home for a period of up to five years.  Bob is offering a compromise, giving up some of his rights to avoid the stress and expense of litigation.

Let’s say that in response to the letter, Jane agrees to these terms and thus, a partition lawsuit is avoided, so long as Jane performs as promised.   But what if Jane does not respond to the letter or perhaps, she agreed but later stops paying the taxes and insurance and is not taking care of the property?   If, despite Bob’s best efforts to be fair, Jane essentially wants all the benefits of living on the property but does not want to pay her fair share, we are back to square one.  Maybe that Partition lawsuit needs to be prepared after all.

The key point of this blog is that before a partition lawsuit is filed, try to work it out.  Most likely, a co-owner will need the help of a lawyer to properly explore settlement options.   In this hypothetical, Bob is willing to make sacrifices by deferring his benefits of ownership in hopes that the home, as an appreciating asset would still be benefit him in the long run, while showing some empathy to Jane.   In my next blog, we will assume that Jane ignores Bob’s reasonable settlement offer, leaving him with no choice but to file the Partition lawsuit.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>by Edward  Smith</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What Happens When Co-Owners of Real Estate Disagree? Understanding Partition Actions in California]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/11/what-happens-when-co-owners-of-real-estate-disagree-understanding-partition-actions-in-california/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255972</id>
            <updated>2025-11-06T20:16:28Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-06T20:16:28Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Partition Actions are lawsuits filed when co-owners of real property no longer wish to be co-owners and may have other disagreements about the property they own together. Co-owing real property with other people is becoming more common. This article addresses common issues and possible solutions. With recent changes to California probate law, more people are becoming co-owners of real estate—often…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/11/what-happens-when-co-owners-of-real-estate-disagree-understanding-partition-actions-in-california/"><![CDATA[Partition Actions are lawsuits filed when co-owners of real property no longer wish to be co-owners and may have other disagreements about the property they own together. Co-owing real property with other people is becoming more common. This article addresses common issues and possible solutions.

With recent changes to California probate law, more people are becoming co-owners of real estate—often through inheritance. Before April 1, 2025, estates worth more than $184,500 had to go through formal probate. Now, if the estate includes real property and is valued under $750,000, it may qualify for a simplified process. This means more families are inheriting homes together, and that can lead to complications.

This blog explores what happens when co-owners of real estate don’t see eye to eye—and how California law provides a way to resolve those disputes through something called a Partition Action.

<strong>Why Co-Ownership Can Lead to Conflict</strong>

Imagine you inherit a house with siblings or other relatives. You didn’t choose to co-own this property, and now you’re sharing responsibilities like:
<ul>
 	<li>Paying property taxes and insurance</li>
 	<li>Covering maintenance and repairs</li>
 	<li>Deciding whether to rent or sell the property</li>
</ul>
Maybe one co-owner lives in the home rent-free, while another wants to sell their share to access cash. These situations can quickly become tense—especially when people have different financial needs or priorities.

<strong>What Are Your Options?</strong>

If you’re in this situation, the first step is to try to work things out. Here are some common solutions co-owners might consider:
<ol>
 	<li>Buyout – One co-owner buys out the others.</li>
 	<li>Sell to a third party – Everyone agrees to sell the property and split the proceeds.</li>
 	<li>Divide responsibilities – Co-owners agree on how to share costs and benefits.</li>
</ol>
But what if no one can agree?

<strong>Enter the Partition Action</strong>

California law says no one can be forced to co-own property forever. If you want out, and the other co-owners won’t cooperate, you have the right to ask the court to step in. This is called a Partition Action.

Under California Code of Civil Procedure Section 872.010 and onward, a Partition Action allows a co-owner to ask the court to:
<ul>
 	<li>Order the sale of the property</li>
 	<li>Divide the proceeds fairly among the owners</li>
 	<li>Resolve disputes about costs, reimbursements, and ownership shares</li>
</ul>
In some cases, the court may even require the uncooperative co-owner to pay your legal fees (see Section 874.040).

<strong>When Should You Consider a Partition Action?</strong>

Before going to court, it’s wise to try negotiating. Ask yourself:
<ul>
 	<li>Can someone buy out my share?</li>
 	<li>Can I buy out theirs?</li>
 	<li>Can we agree on a fair sale price?</li>
 	<li>Are we aligned on how to split costs and profits?</li>
</ul>
If the answer to most of these is “no,” a Partition Action may be your best option.

<strong>Final Thoughts</strong>

Co-owning property—especially when it’s inherited—can feel like being “married” to someone you didn’t choose. If you’re dealing with difficult relatives or co-owners who won’t treat you fairly, you don’t have to stay stuck.

Our firm specializes in both probate and real estate law, and we’re here to help you navigate these challenges. With the new probate thresholds under Assembly Bill 2016, we expect many more Californians to find themselves in co-ownership situations. If that’s you, and you’re ready to explore your options, we’re here to guide you.

Edward A. Smith, Esq.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>by Jennifer  Rouse</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[I am Nominated as a Guardian of a Minor – Now What?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255841</id>
            <updated>2025-02-20T17:55:17Z</updated>
            <published>2025-02-20T17:55:17Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[An important estate planning tool for parents with minor children is the Nomination of Guardian.  This allows a client to exert some control over who will care for their children and their children’s assets if the parent is no longer able to do so.  Some attorneys include the Nomination in their client’s will. I prefer to do the Nomination as…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/02/i-am-nominated-as-a-guardian-of-a-minor-now-what/"><![CDATA[An important estate planning tool for parents with minor children is the Nomination of Guardian.  This allows a client to exert some control over who will care for their children and their children’s assets if the parent is no longer able to do so.  Some attorneys include the Nomination in their client’s will. I prefer to do the Nomination as a stand-alone document so that there is no need to file a will when it is not required.

The Nomination will include nominations for guardian of the person and the guardian of the estate.  It can also include instructions or desires that the parent has for the children such as encouraging interaction with other family members.  If the parent has executed a proper estate plan and no one has named the minor as a beneficiary on a retirement account or life insurance policy, then a guardian of the estate may be unnecessary.  But, if both parents are unable to act either because of death or incapacitation, then the guardian of the person may be necessary so that someone has legal authority to take care of the minor’s wellbeing.

The process of getting appointed guardian is a more in-depth post than the purpose of this post.  The goal of this post is to give some proactive advice to someone who is aware that they have been nominated in a writing by a minor’s parent to be appointed guardian.   There is some information gathering that can be done now so that the court documents can easily and quickly be prepared.  The various documents, including the Petition for Appointment as Guardian of a Minor, require a lot of information about the minor and their family.

The following is some initial information that is important for you to have:
<ul>
 	<li>Full name, date of birth of minor, and place of birth</li>
 	<li>Addresses for the following people:</li>
</ul>
Where the minor is currently residing and for the past five years

The minor’s father

The minor’s mother

The minor’s maternal grandfather (mother’s father)

The minor’s maternal grandmother (mother’s mother)

The minor’s paternal grandfather (father’s father)

The minor’s paternal grandmother (father’s mother)

All of the minor’s siblings, including half-siblings
<ul>
 	<li>Whether the minor is a member of an Indian tribe, if so, which tribe</li>
 	<li>Whether the minor is receiving public benefits (TANF, Social Security, VA benefits) and how much each month</li>
 	<li>Whether the minor has been involved in a court matter such as a divorce proceeding</li>
</ul>
If you have been nominated and need to petition the court to be appointed as a guardian of either the estate or person of a minor, contact us and we can assist you with that process.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>by Mauriah  Conway</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Navigating Homeownership for Non-Married Couples: Key Considerations and Strategies]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255839</id>
            <updated>2025-02-11T17:48:44Z</updated>
            <published>2025-02-11T17:48:44Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[In today’s housing market, more and more non-married couples are deciding to purchase homes together. Whether due to rising housing costs or the desire to build a shared future, co-owning property can be a rewarding but complex undertaking. Unlike married couples, non-married partners lack the legal protections and default rules provided by marriage. This makes it crucial for them to…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/02/navigating-homeownership-for-non-married-couples-key-considerations-and-strategies/"><![CDATA[In today’s housing market, more and more non-married couples are deciding to purchase homes together. Whether due to rising housing costs or the desire to build a shared future, co-owning property can be a rewarding but complex undertaking. Unlike married couples, non-married partners lack the legal protections and default rules provided by marriage. This makes it crucial for them to plan ahead, document agreements, and understand the implications of co-ownership. Below, we explore essential considerations, potential challenges, and strategies for non-married couples purchasing a home together.

<strong>Draft a Cohabitation or Property Ownership Agreement</strong>

A legally binding agreement is a cornerstone of co-ownership for non-married couples. This document can:
<ul>
 	<li>Define each partner’s ownership percentage.</li>
 	<li>Outline financial responsibilities, including mortgage payments, property taxes, insurance, and maintenance costs.</li>
 	<li>Specify how decisions about selling or refinancing the property will be made.</li>
 	<li>Detail a dispute resolution process in case the relationship ends or disagreements arise.</li>
</ul>
This agreement helps protect both parties and provides clarity in situations where emotions might complicate decision-making.

<strong>Address Estate Planning Considerations</strong>

Without a formal plan, the death of one partner can lead to unintended consequences for the surviving partner. Estate planning can ensure that your wishes are honored:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Joint Tenancy with Right of Survivorship (JTWROS):</strong> If the property is held as joint tenants, the surviving owner automatically inherits the deceased partner’s share. This avoids probate but doesn’t account for other heirs who may feel entitled to a portion of the estate.</li>
 	<li><strong>Tenants in Common:</strong> This structure allows each partner to specify heirs for their share of the property. However, it can lead to complications if heirs decide to sell their portion or demand payment from the surviving partner.</li>
 	<li><strong>Wills and Trusts:</strong> A will or trust can clarify your intentions for the property and ensure that the surviving partner is protected. For maximum security, consider a living trust that bypasses probate and provides smoother property transitions.</li>
</ul>
<strong>Plan for Death and Heirship Issues</strong>

If one partner passes away without proper planning, heirs could legally claim the deceased partner’s share of the property. This can create financial and emotional stress for the surviving partner. To prevent disputes:
<ul>
 	<li>Clearly specify property rights in estate documents.</li>
 	<li>Purchase life insurance policies to cover the mortgage or buy out heirs if necessary.</li>
 	<li>Establish a written agreement addressing how the property will be valued and divided in the event of one partner’s death.</li>
</ul>
<strong>Handle Mortgage and Income Disparities</strong>

Differences in income or credit scores can complicate mortgage arrangements. Here are some strategies to address these challenges:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Co-Borrowing:</strong> Both partners can apply for the mortgage together, combining their income but also sharing equal liability.</li>
 	<li><strong>Single Borrower:</strong> If one partner has a stronger financial profile, they can apply for the mortgage alone. However, this may create tension if the other partner feels excluded.</li>
 	<li><strong>Fair Contribution Agreements:</strong> Document how mortgage payments and down payments will be divided. For example, if one partner contributes a larger share, the agreement can reflect a proportional ownership split.</li>
</ul>
<strong>Paying Bills and Managing Ongoing Expenses</strong>

Non-married couples should also agree on how they will handle day-to-day expenses related to the property. Common approaches include:
<ul>
 	<li>Setting up a joint account for housing-related expenses.</li>
 	<li>Splitting costs proportionally based on income or ownership percentage.</li>
 	<li>Keeping a detailed record of contributions to avoid disputes later.</li>
</ul>
<strong>What Happens if You Break Up?</strong>

While it’s hard to imagine the end of a relationship at the beginning of a home purchase, planning for this possibility is essential. The cohabitation agreement should address:
<ul>
 	<li>Whether one partner can buy out the other’s share.</li>
 	<li>The timeline and process for selling the property.</li>
 	<li>How to handle shared equity and closing costs.</li>
</ul>
<strong>Seek Professional Guidance</strong>

Co-owning property as a non-married couple requires careful legal, financial, and estate planning. Consulting with professionals—such as real estate attorneys, financial advisors, and estate planning experts—can provide peace of mind and protect your investment.

<strong>Conclusion</strong>

Purchasing a home as a non-married couple is a significant milestone that comes with unique challenges. By taking the time to create clear agreements, plan for the future, and address potential risks, you can build a stable foundation for your shared home and relationship. Thoughtful preparation today can prevent misunderstandings, disputes, and financial hardships down the road.

Contact <strong>Mauriah Conway, Esq</strong>. to assist you with all of your Estate Planning, Probate and Trust Administration Needs <strong>[nap_phone id="LOCAL-CT-NUMBER-1"]</strong>.

<em>Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult with a qualified attorney for guidance specific to your situation.</em>]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Jennifer  Rouse</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Is There A Power of Attorney that a Parent Can Execute for Care of Their Minor Child?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/is-there-a-power-of-attorney-that-a-parent-can-execute-for-care-of-their-minor-child/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255837</id>
            <updated>2025-01-30T16:57:52Z</updated>
            <published>2025-01-30T16:57:52Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The answer is yes.  I recently researched this issue when a friend that is a single parent of two teenagers whose job requires her to be out-of-state often had to scramble to get someone to physically get her children from the hospital.  One child was injured and needed to go to the emergency department.  The other child was able to…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/is-there-a-power-of-attorney-that-a-parent-can-execute-for-care-of-their-minor-child/"><![CDATA[The answer is yes.  I recently researched this issue when a friend that is a single parent of two teenagers whose job requires her to be out-of-state often had to scramble to get someone to physically get her children from the hospital.  One child was injured and needed to go to the emergency department.  The other child was able to take the injured child, but they were not allowed to leave the hospital until an adult was present.  This happened in the middle of the night and luckily the friend was able to get another friend to go to the hospital for her and consent to the two minors leaving.

In my research, I found three options, but only one of them worked for my friend.  The first option is to have a guardian of the person appointed.  This did not make sense because my friend, as the parent, is able to perform all the duties that a guardian of the person performs and she only needs someone occasionally when she is out of town.  Plus, there is no reason to go to the expense of a court process to appoint a guardian of the person for only a periodic need.

The second option is a Caregiver’s Affidavit.  I discuss these Affidavits in my June 28, 2023 blog post.  A Caregiver’s Affidavit is a great alternative to a guardianship because it gives a caregiver the authority to enroll a minor in school and to consent to medical treatment.  However, there are limitations such that the caregiver has to be a family member, and the minor has to reside with the caregiver.  My friend did not have a family member near her and her children reside with her.

What worked for my client’s situation is an Authorization for Care Provider to Consent to Medical or Dental Treatment of Minor discussed in Family Code Section 6910.  That code section provides that “The parent, guardian, or caregiver of a minor who is a relative of the minor and who may authorize medical care and dental care under Section 6550, may authorize in writing an adult into whose care a minor has been entrusted to consent to medical care or dental care, or both, for the minor.”  Family Code Section 6550 is the Caregiver’s Affidavit provision discussed above.  What this provides is that a parent, a legal guardian, or a caregiver can execute a document authorizing another adult to consent to medical or dental treatment.

There is no statutory form for this document like there is for the Caregiver’s Affidavit, but the requirements are straightforward.  The document should identify the minor including their birth date and the adult that the parent, legal guardian or caregiver is authorizing.  There is language that can be included about the type of care that is being authorized and whether the minor can be released to someone other than the parent, legal guardian, or caregiver.  The document can also limit the timeframe for the authorization.

The signature of the parent, legal guardian, or caregiver can be notarized or witnessed.  However, it is suggested that the document be notarized as medical professionals are more likely to honor a notarized document rather than a witnessed document.

This ends up being a great option for my friend as she can execute an authorization specific to a period of time that she is going to be out of town.  The only inconvenience to her is getting her signature notarized each time.

If you need any assistance with a guardianship, caregiver’s affidavit or authorization, please contact my office to discuss.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Jennifer  Rouse</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can My Attorney Tell Me My Estate Planning Idea is Bad?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255835</id>
            <updated>2025-01-23T19:01:15Z</updated>
            <published>2025-01-23T19:01:15Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Short answer, yes.  And your attorney has a duty to tell you that it is a bad idea.  This can be an uncomfortable conversation with my clients when they want to place certain requirements on a distribution to a beneficiary that I know is going to be impossible to administer.  For example, I had a client a few years ago…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/can-my-attorney-tell-me-my-estate-planning-idea-is-bad/"><![CDATA[Short answer, yes.  And your attorney has a duty to tell you that it is a bad idea.  This can be an uncomfortable conversation with my clients when they want to place certain requirements on a distribution to a beneficiary that I know is going to be impossible to administer.  For example, I had a client a few years ago that wanted to limit distribution to the grandchildren so long as those grandchildren were not part of a certain political group.  I had to walk my client through what that would entail to ensure compliance – What proof is required to show that the grandchild is not part of that group?  Is the trustee someone who could make a claim that the grandchild is part of that group wrongly and refuse to distribute to the grandchild?  What if the grandchild was at an event that the political group was also attending – would that trigger them not receiving their distribution?  And the big question - is that really the right thing to do in your estate plan?

Sometimes the client’s idea is obviously a bad one, but other times the idea may sound good, but practically speaking, it can cause complications or unnecessary court involvement in the administration of the trust or estate.  This is where the experience of an attorney that has drafted many estate plans as well as administered many estate plans comes in handy because we see the backend of a plan when it must be implemented.  You do not get that type of advice or experience using a computer program to draft your estate plan or using fill-in-the-blanks statutory forms.  There is an increase in court filings based on bad drafting when a person does not use an attorney to draft their estate plan.

A recent case illustrates the importance of having an attorney available to tell you that the distribution idea is a bad one.  The California Court of Appeals found in <em>Godoy v. Linzner</em> ((2024) __ Cal.App.5<sup>th</sup> ____, cite as B330725) that a handwritten amendment to a trust was void as an unreasonable restraint on alienation under Civil Code Section 711.  The settlor, the person who created the trust, used an attorney to draft her trust.  The original trust included a provision that the settlor’s residence be retained in trust for the settlor’s three children for a minimum of five years following her death and that if or when the property was sold, that the trustee <em>consider</em> selling it to a family member.  The key to this provision in the original trust was that these requirements were not mandatory and compliance was in the trustee’s discretion.

One year later, the settlor executed a handwritten amendment to her trust requiring that a child keep their interest in the real property for the remainder of their lives or if they wanted to sell it, they HAD to sell it to their other siblings for no more than $100,000.  When the settlor died, the real property was worth more than a million dollars.  If you were one of the three children, would you sell your $330,000 plus interest in the property for only $100,000 to a sibling?  Maybe not, so then you were stuck co-owning the property with your two siblings because the trust required that you retain it for the rest of your life.

As mentioned above, the Court of Appeals determined that the settlor could not control the ownership or the sales price of her residence from the grave and found that the terms in the handwritten amendment were a restraint on alienation.  You can imagine that for this issue to get to the Court of Appeals, it took many years of litigation to conclude that the handwritten amendment was not valid.

The takeaway from this case for attorneys is that you have a duty to tell your client that their idea is bad.  And the takeaway for a client drafting their estate plan is to listen to their attorney when they tell you that your idea is bad.

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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Mauriah  Conway</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Avoiding the Pitfalls: Three Critical Mistakes That Undermine an Estate Plan]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/avoiding-the-pitfalls-three-critical-mistakes-that-undermine-an-estate-plan/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255833</id>
            <updated>2025-01-14T18:58:03Z</updated>
            <published>2025-01-14T18:58:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Crafting a solid estate plan is essential to ensuring your wishes are fulfilled and your loved ones are provided for after you’re gone. However, even the most well-intentioned plans can unravel if critical details are overlooked. Below, we explore three common mistakes that can undermine an estate plan and provide practical advice on how to avoid them. Failure to Provide…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/avoiding-the-pitfalls-three-critical-mistakes-that-undermine-an-estate-plan/"><![CDATA[Crafting a solid estate plan is essential to ensuring your wishes are fulfilled and your loved ones are provided for after you’re gone. However, even the most well-intentioned plans can unravel if critical details are overlooked. Below, we explore three common mistakes that can undermine an estate plan and provide practical advice on how to avoid them.
<ol>
 	<li><u>Failure to Provide Complete and Accurate Information</u></li>
</ol>
An estate plan is only as effective as the information it is based upon. Incomplete or inaccurate information about your assets, liabilities, family structure, or personal wishes can lead to confusion, disputes, or even the invalidation of your plan.

<strong>Common Pitfalls:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>Omitting key assets, such as recently acquired property or digital accounts.</li>
 	<li>Failing to disclose debts or liabilities.</li>
 	<li>Overlooking changes in family relationships, such as marriages, divorces, or births.</li>
</ul>
<strong>How to Avoid This Mistake:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>Conduct a comprehensive inventory of your assets and liabilities, including retirement accounts, real estate, and digital assets.</li>
 	<li>Regularly update your estate plan to reflect life changes or new information.</li>
 	<li>Work with an experienced estate planning attorney who can ensure all necessary details are accounted for.</li>
</ul>
<ol start="2">
 	<li><u>Lack of Coordination Among Estate Planning Instruments</u></li>
</ol>
Your estate plan likely includes various tools, such as a will, trust, beneficiary designations, and powers of attorney. When these instruments are not properly coordinated, conflicts and inconsistencies can arise.

<strong>Examples of Issues:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>A beneficiary designation on a retirement account or life insurance policy that contradicts your will or trust.</li>
 	<li>A power of attorney agent is authorized to amend your trust when the trust document explicitly prohibits it.</li>
 	<li>Overlapping or contradictory instructions across various estate planning documents.</li>
</ul>
<strong>How to Avoid This Mistake:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>Review all estate planning documents and beneficiary designations together to ensure consistency.</li>
 	<li>Clearly outline the scope of authority for agents under powers of attorney, particularly when it comes to amending or managing trust assets.</li>
 	<li>Consult with a qualified attorney to ensure that all instruments align with your overall estate planning goals.</li>
</ul>
<ol start="3">
 	<li><u>Failure to Account for Blended Family Dynamics</u></li>
</ol>
Blended families present unique challenges in estate planning. Failing to address these complexities can result in unintended outcomes, such as inadvertently disinheriting a spouse or children from a previous marriage.

<strong>Potential Problems:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>Leaving all assets outright to a surviving spouse, who may not provide for your children from a prior marriage.</li>
 	<li>Unequal or unclear distributions among biological and stepchildren.</li>
 	<li>Overlooking emotional sensitivities and potential conflicts within the family.</li>
</ul>
<strong>How to Avoid This Mistake:</strong>
<ul>
 	<li>Use tools such as trusts to provide for your spouse while ensuring assets eventually pass to your children.</li>
 	<li>Specify how assets are to be divided among all beneficiaries.</li>
 	<li>Communicate your intentions to family members to manage expectations and minimize disputes.</li>
 	<li>Work with a professional who understands the complexities of blended families and can guide you in creating a fair and balanced plan.</li>
</ul>
<strong>Conclusion</strong>

An effective estate plan requires attention to detail, careful coordination, and a deep understanding of your family’s unique circumstances. By avoiding these three critical mistakes—failing to provide accurate information, neglecting to coordinate estate planning instruments, and overlooking the complexities of blended families—you can help ensure your wishes are honored and your loved ones are cared for.

Estate planning is not a one-and-done task; it requires ongoing review and adjustment as life changes. Partnering with an experienced estate planning attorney is the best way to navigate these challenges and create a plan that stands the test of time.

Contact <strong>Mauriah Conway, Esq</strong>. to assist you with all of your Estate Planning, Probate and Trust Administration Needs <strong>[nap_phone id="LOCAL-CT-NUMBER-1"]</strong>.

<em>Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult with a qualified attorney for guidance specific to your situation.</em>]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Jennifer  Rouse</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Do I Have to Personally Pay My Parent’s Expenses?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/do-i-have-to-personally-pay-my-parents-expenses/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255831</id>
            <updated>2025-01-09T17:56:11Z</updated>
            <published>2025-01-09T17:56:11Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The short answer to the question of whether you are legally obligated to support your parents is “probably not.”  While California does have a filial law, it is rarely enforced. Filial laws are also known as filial support laws which require adult children to financially support their parents if the parents are unable to do so themselves. Support means providing…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2025/01/do-i-have-to-personally-pay-my-parents-expenses/"><![CDATA[The short answer to the question of whether you are legally obligated to support your parents is “probably not.”  While California does have a filial law, it is rarely enforced.

Filial laws are also known as filial support laws which require adult children to financially support their parents if the parents are unable to do so themselves. Support means providing basic needs like food, shelter, clothing, and medical care.  California’s filial law is found in California Family Code Section 4400 which states “Except as otherwise provided by law, an adult child shall, to the extent of the adult child’s ability, support a parent who is in need and unable to self-maintain by work.” There are factors included in the Family Code that must be considered when determining whether the child is legally responsible to support their parents.  Those factors are the following:
<ul>
 	<li>The earning capacity of each party.</li>
 	<li>The needs of each party.</li>
 	<li>Each party’s obligations, assets, age, health, and standard of living.</li>
 	<li>Other factors that the court considers just and equitable.</li>
</ul>
To enforce the California filial law, Family Code Section 4403 allows only two parties to petition for the support payments:
<ul>
 	<li>The county that is seeking reimbursement for support payment made by its agencies to the parent who has a child who could have paid that support; and</li>
 	<li>A parent can petition for a child to support them.</li>
</ul>
The county’s reimbursement is limited to the payments made by the county above what it is required to pay under Welfare and Institutions Code Section 2000 et seq.  The county is also entitled to reimbursement of attorney’s fees for bringing the petition.  Due to California’s Medi-Cal program, it is very rare that a county will seek reimbursement under the filial laws.

If a parent is the petitioner, the court will consider the ability of all the children to pay for the support.  The court has the authority to require one child to pay more than another child based on the child’s ability to make the payments.  A parent can also bring a petition under filial laws to enforce a promise by a child to provide support.

While in the almost three decades that I have been practicing in the estate planning, conservatorship, probate arena, I have never seen a filial petition filed, it will not surprise me if we start seeing more as an elder abuse tool.]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Mauriah  Conway</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Navigating the Holidays: Discussing Estate Planning and Nominating Guardians for Minor Children]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2024/12/navigating-the-holidays-discussing-estate-planning-and-nominating-guardians-for-minor-children/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255829</id>
            <updated>2024-12-10T19:25:25Z</updated>
            <published>2024-12-10T19:25:25Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[I love the holidays, it’s a time to gather and connect with friends and family.  Since I had my first child 17 years ago, I’ve used this time to mentally review whether or not the guardians I choose for my children still make sense.  I am sure you are eagerly anticipating the joy of gathering with friends or family. Amidst…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2024/12/navigating-the-holidays-discussing-estate-planning-and-nominating-guardians-for-minor-children/"><![CDATA[I love the holidays, it’s a time to gather and connect with friends and family.  Since I had my first child 17 years ago, I’ve used this time to mentally review whether or not the guardians I choose for my children still make sense.  I am sure you are eagerly anticipating the joy of gathering with friends or family. Amidst the festive celebrations and merry traditions, there lies an opportunity to engage in meaningful conversations about estate planning. In particular, discussing the nomination of guardians for minor children is a crucial aspect that deserves attention. So don’t waste this opportunity to discuss with potential guardians or revisit your past choices and make sure the people you’ve identified still make sense.
<ol>
 	<li><strong>Recognizing the Importance of Guardian Nomination:</strong> Nominating guardians for minor children is one of the most significant decisions parents can make in their estate plan. It involves selecting trusted individuals who will assume parental responsibilities in the event of the parents' incapacity or passing. By designating guardians, parents ensure that their children are cared for by individuals who share their values and can provide a loving and supportive environment.</li>
 	<li><strong>Initiating Conversations with Potential Guardians:</strong> Visiting family and friends during the holidays presents an ideal opportunity to discuss estate planning, including the nomination of guardians. When broaching this topic, approach the conversation with sensitivity and empathy. Express your trust and confidence in the individual's ability to fulfill the role of guardian, emphasizing the importance of maintaining continuity and stability for your children.</li>
 	<li><strong>Questions to Ask Potential Guardians:</strong> During your holiday visit, consider asking potential guardians the following questions to assess their suitability for the role:</li>
</ol>
<ul>
 	<li style="list-style-type: none;">
<ul>
 	<li>Have you considered the responsibilities involved in serving as a guardian for our children?</li>
 	<li>How do you envision incorporating our children into your family dynamic?</li>
 	<li>What are your parenting philosophies and values?</li>
 	<li>How would you handle potential challenges or conflicts that may arise?</li>
 	<li>Do you have the necessary resources and support system to care for our children?</li>
 	<li>Are you willing to prioritize our children's emotional, physical, and educational needs?</li>
 	<li>Have you discussed your role as guardian with your own family members and received their support?</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<ol start="4">
 	<li><strong>Facilitating Open and Honest Dialogue:</strong> Encourage open communication with potential guardians, allowing them to express any concerns or reservations they may have. It's essential to address any misunderstandings or misconceptions about the responsibilities associated with guardianship and provide reassurance and clarity where needed. By fostering a supportive and collaborative environment, you can ensure that all parties are on the same page and committed to the well-being of your children.</li>
 	<li><strong>Documenting Your Wishes:</strong> After discussing guardianship arrangements with potential candidates, it's crucial to formalize your decisions in your estate planning documents. Or in the alternative revise the documents you already created. Work with your estate planning attorney to draft a comprehensive guardianship nomination that reflects your preferences and intentions. Review and update these documents regularly to accommodate any changes in circumstances or preferences.</li>
</ol>
Conclusion: As you gather with family and friends during the holidays, take the opportunity to discuss estate planning and nominate guardians for your minor children. By approaching these conversations with sensitivity, openness, and clarity, you can ensure that your children's future is secure and that your wishes are honored. Remember that while discussing guardianship may be challenging, it is ultimately a testament to your love and dedication to your children's well-being.

Contact Mauriah Conway, Esq. to assist you with all of your Estate Planning, Probate and Trust Administration Needs [nap_phone id="LOCAL-CT-NUMBER-1"].

<em>Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult with a qualified attorney for guidance specific to your situation.</em>]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>by Jennifer  Rouse</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Who Can Contest the Terms of My Trust?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2024/12/who-can-contest-the-terms-of-my-trust/" />
            <id>https://www.lawofficeinc.com/?p=255827</id>
            <updated>2024-12-05T16:50:32Z</updated>
            <published>2024-12-05T16:50:32Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[I occasionally discuss with my clients the issue of someone “fighting” their trust. This usually is where there is an estranged child or other family member, and the clients are concerned about cost and delay of litigation after their death.  The clients will ask about “giving that person one dollar or something” which is a common comment based on what…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lawofficeinc.com/blog/2024/12/who-can-contest-the-terms-of-my-trust/"><![CDATA[I occasionally discuss with my clients the issue of someone “fighting” their trust. This usually is where there is an estranged child or other family member, and the clients are concerned about cost and delay of litigation after their death.  The clients will ask about “giving that person one dollar or something” which is a common comment based on what clients have seen on television shows and in movies. I explain that the practice of giving a person only a dollar in a document is so that person is a beneficiary and subject to the no-contest clause.  My discussion with my client then surrounds whether that person would have “standing” to contest and whether one dollar is a true incentive to not contest the trust.

Now that discussion has more clarity based on the finding in <u>Hamlin v. Jendayi</u> (2024) 105 Cal.App.5th 1064.  <u>Hamlin</u> broadened the class of parties who can bring a trust contest.

An initial issue when discussing a trust contest is whether someone has “standing” to bring the contest which is a requirement to file a petition with the court.  The theory of requiring standing is to limit claims by people who truly have no interest in the trust. While the Probate Code can limit the persons who are entitled to bring a claim, case law can broaden or limit the list of individuals (or entities). This can be seen in the <u>Hamlin</u> court’s definition of standing which differs from the parties named in Probate Code Section 17200 who can bring a petition under that section.  That Probate Code Section is a common one used to bring trust contests, and it states that only “a trustee or beneficiary of a trust may petition the court.”  However, <u>Hamlin</u> defines standing as a party who has a beneficial interest in the conflict and has a concrete, actual right, or interest that can be affected by the action (105 Cal.App.5th at p. 1074).  The key difference now is that any interested person can bring a trust contest.  The Probate Code defines “interested person” in Section 48 and that definition is similar to the definition in <u>Hamlin</u>.

The <u>Hamlin</u> case involves a decedent who executed a trust close to her death that named a non-relative as the trustee and sole beneficiary.  The decedent’s sisters, her only family members, were not named at all in the trust and they contested it.  The non-relative, who was the trustee and sole beneficiary, claimed that the sisters did not have standing to contest because they were not a trustee or beneficiary as stated in Probate Code Section 17200.  The court, using the definitions discussed above regarding interested persons, found that the sisters in their capacity as heirs – the closest blood relatives to the decedent – did have standing to contest the trust.   The reasoning discussed that elsewhere in the Probate Code, heirs have rights such as under Probate Code Section 16061.7 where an heir is entitled to receive a trustee’s notice when a trust becomes irrevocable even when they are not a beneficiary.

In situations where there has been actual undue influence by a party to be named as a beneficiary of a trust, it does make sense to allow those who would have been entitled to a distribution to bring a trust contest.  But this holding could open the door for more litigation by heirs that a decedent truly does not want to receive a distribution.  Based on this holding, if I have a client who strongly believes that an heir will contest the trust upon my client’s death, I may suggest that they give something to that heir as an incentive to not bring a contest.  This will force that beneficiary to consider the risk of bringing a contest and not receiving that gift.  I can guarantee you that the amount I suggest my client to give to that person will be more than a dollar!]]></content>
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